You should not wait for a married man without a limit. There is no single correct number of weeks or months, but a healthy limit names the evidence you need, the date by which you need it and the action you will take if the situation is unchanged. His difficulty can be real without requiring you to put your own life on hold indefinitely.
Waiting may have started as a short act of patience and slowly become the structure of your life. You may postpone dating, plans and emotional peace because the future always seems one conversation or one crisis away.
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Choose a boundary you control
You cannot set the date by which he must leave and guarantee he will comply. You can decide how long you will remain in a hidden or uncertain relationship. Base that decision on your emotional wellbeing, your life goals and the amount of uncertainty you can accept without becoming resentful or depleted.
If you still need to assess his likelihood of acting, read the difference between a promise and a separation already in motion.
Time matters less than what happens inside it
| Measurable progress | Open-ended delay |
|---|---|
| He discloses the decision and begins practical planning. | Only you know that he supposedly intends to leave. |
| Obstacles are named with steps to address them. | Each solved obstacle is replaced by a new indefinite one. |
| You agree on what the next milestone means. | The deadline changes after emotional reassurance. |
| You continue making independent life choices. | Your future remains suspended around his availability. |
Say what you need without negotiating against yourself
Try: “I care about you, but I cannot continue this arrangement beyond [date]. For me to reconsider, you would need to be openly and independently separated—not only planning to be. If that does not happen, I will step away.” Choose a condition you can recognize without interpreting hidden signals.
Love is respect describes boundaries as limits that support your needs and wellbeing. A boundary is effective only when it states your action and you are prepared to follow it.
Ask Maria whether this wait is leading toward the future you want
Maria can explore his current intention, the obstacles and attachments delaying him, whether movement toward separation appears likely, how the relationship may change, and what timing she senses around the next important shift.
- Whether his intention feels active or whether he is preserving the present arrangement.
- What is blocking progress and whether that influence appears likely to change.
- The likely direction and timing around commitment, separation or release.
Maria’s approach: a USA-based psychic and tarot reader, Maria combines intuition and tarot to read the connection behind your questions. Her focus is on what comes through about the feelings, the blockage, and the path ahead—including where the picture feels mixed.
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Do not make waiting your only plan
Keep friendships, work, health and future goals moving. Decide whether exclusivity to an unavailable person is a choice you genuinely want. The more your life stays active, the easier it becomes to judge the relationship by what it offers rather than by how much you have already invested.
Three questions for Maria about how long to wait
- Does he genuinely intend to leave his marriage and build a relationship with me?
- What is delaying him, and is that block likely to change soon?
- What timing and future direction do you sense if I continue to wait?
Are these the questions you want answered? Bring them to Maria, or write your own. Your reading will focus on the situation and details you share.
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Tell Maria how long you have waited, the deadlines that passed and the limit you are considering. She can explore his present intention and likely relationship direction while you use observable progress to make an informed decision.
Questions about waiting for an unavailable partner
Is six months too long to wait?
The number alone cannot answer it. Ask what concrete movement occurred in those six months and whether the current arrangement is one you would knowingly choose for another six.
Should I date other people while I wait?
If you have not freely agreed to exclusivity, you can decide not to reserve your future for someone unavailable. Be honest about the arrangement rather than using dating to provoke him.
What if my deadline makes him leave me?
A boundary may reveal that he cannot offer what you need. That outcome can hurt, but it also ends an uncertainty that was already shaping your life.
A personal reading by Maria
Explore whether the energy ahead shows movement or more delay
Maria can look at his intentions, the strongest block around his marriage, and the next shift she senses so you can compare that insight with the timetable his actions reveal.
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